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If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.(共10篇)
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（一）：
大神们快来帮我分析一下这个英语句子啊~·If your happiness depends on what somebody else does,I guess you do have a problem.
说一下这个是什么从句,先行词是什么,条件状语是什么,从句是哪里,哪个是宾语哪个是主语,这个句子中有什么短语,它可以相当于什么,
这个句子应该是一个条件状语从句,If your happiness depends on what somebody else does是从句,后一句是主句,在从句中含一个宾语从句,your happiness 是主语（Subject）,depends是谓语,on加后面的句子相当于一个介宾结构,what somebody else does可以看作on的宾语,至于主句,I guess you do have a problem中也暗含一个宾语从句,I是主语,guess是谓语,you do have a problem是宾语,其中do无实意,放在谓语前表强调,总言之,这是一个复句.
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（二）：
100个英语短句及翻译十例句1.a heart that loves is always young.有爱的心永远年轻.
2.at the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.
3.distance makes the hearts grow fonder.
4.i need him like i need the air to breathe.
5.if equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me.
6.if i had a single flower for every time i think about you, i could
walk forever in my garden.
7.if i know what love is, it is because of you.因为你,我懂得了爱.经典语句
8.look into my eyes - you will see what you mean to me.
9.love ,promised between the fingers finger rift,twisted in the love
10.love is a vine that grows into our hearts.
11.love is like a butterfly. it goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes.
12.love is the greatest refreshment in life.
13.love never dies.爱情永不死. 伤感的句子
14.man is a born child, his power is the power of growth.
15.no man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won’t make you cry.
16.no one indebted for others,while many people don’t know how to cherish others.
17.rest belongs to the work as the eyelids to the eyes.
18.the darkness is no darkness with thee.有了你,黑暗不再是黑暗.
19.there is no remedy for love but to love more.治疗爱的创伤唯有加倍地去爱.
20.we cease loving ourselves if no one loves us.
21.when a cigarette falls in love with a match,it is destined to be hurt.当香烟爱上火柴时,就注定受到伤害.
22.when love is not madness, it is not love.如果爱不疯狂就不是爱了. 经典语句
23.within you i lose myself, without you i find myself wanting to be lost again.
24.you will have it if it belongs to you,whereas you don’t kvetch for it if it doesn’t appear in your life.命里有时钟需有 命里无时莫强求.
25. If winter comes , can spring be far behind ?冬天来了,春天还会远吗? 26.If you doubt yourself , then indeed you stand on shaky11 ground .如果你怀疑自己,那么你的立足点确实不稳固了 27.If you would go up high , then use your own legs ! Do not let yourselves carried aloft; do not seat yourselves on other people"s backs and heads .
28.Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well.
29、Happiness is a way station between too much and too little.
30、In love folly is always sweet.
31、The hard part isn’t making the decision. It’s living with it. 做出决定并不困难,困难的是接受决定.
32、Your happy passer-by all knows, my distressed there is no place hides.
33、You may be out of my sight, but never out of my mind. 你也许已走出我的视线,但从未走出我的思念.
34、Love is not a maybe thing. You know when you love someone.
35、In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years. 到头来,你活了多少岁不算什么,重要的是,你是如何度过这些岁月的.
36、When the whole world is about to rain, let’s make it clear in our heart together.
37、It’s better to be alone than to be with someone you’re not happy to be with.
38、Life is a journey, not the destination, but the scenery along the should be and the mood at the view. 人生就是一场旅行,不在乎目的地,在乎的应该是沿途的风景以及看风景的心情.
39、Time goes by so fast, people go in and out of your life. You must
never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean to
you
40、I lied when I said I didn’t like you. I lied when I said I didn’t care. I lie every
time I try to tell myself I will never fall for you.
41.One needs 3 things to be truly happy living in the world: some thing to do, some one to love, some thing to hope for.
42、No matter how bad your heart has been broken, the world doesn’t stop
for your grief. The sun comes right back up the next day. 不管你有多痛苦,这个世界都不会为你停止转动.太阳依旧照样升起.
43、Accept what was and what is, and you’ll have more positive energy to pursue what will be. 接受过去和现在的模样,才会有能量去追寻自己的未来.
44、Until you make peace with who you are, you’ll never be content with what you have.
45、If you would hit the mark, you must aim a little above it. Every
arrow that flies feels the attraction of earth. －Henry Wadsworth
Longfellow.
46、If you wish to succeed, you should use persistence as your good friend,
experience as your reference, prudence as your brother and hope as your
sentry.
47、I’ll think of you every step of the way.
48.I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
49.Great minds have purpose, others have wishes.
杰出的人有着目标,其他人只有愿望.
50、Being single is better than being in an unfaithful relationship.
52、If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere.
53、Getting out of bed in winter is one of life’s hardest mission.
55、The future is scary but you can’t just run to the past cause it’s familiar.
未来会让人心生畏惧,但是我们却不能因为习惯了过去,就逃回过去.
55、I love it when I catch you looking at me then you smile and look away.
56、Having a calm smile to face with being disdained indicates kind of confidence.
被轻蔑的时候能平静的一笑,这是一种自信.
57、Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
成功是,你即使跨过一个又一个失败,但也没有失去热情.
58、Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.
59、A guy who whispers in your ears, saying ” It’s alright, I’m here.”
Holds you when you’re sad, and treasures everything about you. That’s
the guy I want to give my heart to.
60、Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you
want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the
things you want to do.
61.We all have moments of desperation. But if we can face them head on, that’s when we find out just how strong we really are.
62.If they throw stones at you, don’t throw back, use them to build your own foundation instead.如果别人朝你扔石头,就不要扔回去了,留着作你建高楼的基石.
63、If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, I guess you do have a problem.
64、When there’s no expectation, losing won’t bring hurt, gaining makes you surprised.
不去期望.失去了不会伤心,得到了便是惊喜.
65、Sometimes your plans don’t work out because God has better ones
66、How much truth of heart in one’s life is told in a joke?
一辈子,有多少真心话,是以玩笑的方式说了出去?
67、A relationship should be between two people, not the whole world.
68、You can’t have a better tomorrow if you don’t stop thinking about yesterday.
如果你无法忘掉昨天,就不会有一个更好的明天.
69、Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day.
ps:我把自己认为好的句子中文弄出来了.表示已经无力了~就这么多啦,你将就着看吧.【If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.】
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（三）：
英语翻译英文部分我自己写了,中文部分待翻译!英语好者进! It still reminds of me the words that Bad luck,I guess.It floats around.It"s got to land on somebody.It was my turn,that"s all.I was in the pash of the tornado .I just didn"t expect the storm would last as long as it was.We all will experiences much hardships in our life.What would u do when ur prison is walking through this world all alone .If u become depressed and lose the faith in ur life?But Andy isn"t like this .when he was thrown into prison he found ways to kill long time to escape. He rebuilt a library by writing to the state senate year after year and helped the other prisoners.Althou Andy is in his most difficult time that everything seems desperation.他也没有丧失对生活的热爱和追求自由的决心.他用19年的时光为自己凿出了一条通向自由和希望的道路.我们是人类,我们很渺小,无法去改变世间的很多事情,但我们同样也很伟大,有些事你说他是坏就是坏,说他是好就是好,一切取决于你的生活态度.不管结果是如何,充满乐观地活着总比成天忧郁地等死来得好,just as Andy said,hope is a good thing...maybe the best of things.And no good thing ever dies.yes,no good thing ever dies wherever you are .whoever u are .whatever u meet.
他也没有丧失对生活的热爱和追求自由的决心.他用19年的时光为自己凿出了一条通向自由和希望的道路.我们是人类,我们很渺小,无法去改变世间的很多事情,但我们同样也很伟大,有些事你说他是坏就是坏,说他是好就是好,一切取决于你的生活态度.不管结果是如何,充满乐观地活着总比成天忧郁地等死来得好
He didn"t lost love of life and the pursuit of freedom. He determined to 19 years time to hew out for themselves a path into the freedom and hope road. We are human beings, we are very small, not to change a lot of things of the world, but we also is great, and there are some things you said he is bad is bad, said that he is the good is good, everything depends on your attitude of life. No matter how full of optimism, the result is to live than all day melancholy to die at all
抱歉,我能力有限,只能翻译中文,这是在有道上面查的,绝对正确
希望对你有帮助
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（四）：
-Do you konw why Tom has been fired by the company-Not exactly,But i guess it is mainly ( )his rudeness to the manager.
A:results from B:because of C:because D:depends on
因为his rudeness to the manager不是一个句子,而是短语,because后接句子,其他两个不符合句意
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（五）：
1.--- Look at ______old man.Who is he?--- Sorry,I don’t know.A.an B./ C.a D.the
2.---Do you know anything about the singer Jay?
---Yeah.I heard that he speaks English best in the family,but he speaks Chinese ______ in the family.
A.best B.worst C.better D.worse
3.-- ________did Charles Osborne hiccup?--He hiccupped 69 years.
A.When; in B.How; for C.Why; / D.How long; for
4.sixteen,Edison began to sell newspapers on the train.
A.When the age was B.At the age of C.By the age of D.On the age of
5.–Is your grandmother still --Of course.She with my aunt in the countryside.
A.live; lives B.living; alive C.alive; lives D.live; alive
6.I am ________than most of the kids in my class and my best friend Mary is quiet,too.
A.funnier B.quieter C.more athletic D.smarter
7.If you are_________,listening to music is good for you.
A.hungry B.thirsty C.stressed out D.weak
8.It’s easy to have a _____ lifestyle,and it’s important _____ a balanced diet.
A.healthy,eat B.health,eating C.health,to eat D.healthy,to eat
9.The English short play made all of us _______.
A.to cry B.laugh C.eating D.dance
10.---When did the young man the army?---In 2003.
A.join B.join in C.take part in D.enter
11.---Can you guess who will be the first to cross the finish line?---Sandy.Jane didn’t run so fast_______ she did last time.
A.than B.so C.that D.as
12.You are never ________ young _________ start doing things.
A.so...that B.between...and C.too...to D.more...than
13.Li Ming can’t come to help us this afternoon.He has got _______.
A.something important to do B.important something to do
C.to do important something D.to do some important
14.---How long does it take you to do your homework every day?---It _____ me two hours.
A.spends B.takes C.is D.are
15.I often wait for my mother ________ she comes home.A.after B.when C.because D.until
16.You look tired.You should _____ A.play basketball B.go camping C.go fishing D.lie down and rest
17.--- Must we clean the classroom now?---No,you _______.
A.mustn"t B.may not C.can"t D.needn"t
18.In my class,85% students ride bikes to school.So ——students get to school by bike.
A.all B.more C.most D.a few
19.I like talking with others.But Tom doesn’t.He often reads books.So Tom is than I am.A.funnier B.more outgoing C.wilder D.calmer
20．--What _____ did you do?-- I hung out with my friend and took some photos
A.else B.other C.more D.the other
1.d
2.b
3.d
4.b
5.c
6.b
7.c
8.d
9.b
10.a
11.d
12 c
13 a
14 b
15 d
16 d
17 d
18 c
19 d
20 a
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（六）：
What time will Kate be home?If I ___(know)I ___(tell)you.But she didn"t say a word to me because we argued yesterday.
What time will Kate be home? If I _know__(know)I __would tell_(tell)you.
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（七）：
( )16.My friend has the same haircut _____ I do.A.as B.like C .with D .than
( )17.I’m very ____ because my best friend didn’t invite me to come to his party.
A .popular B.happy C.late D .upset
( )18.My friend is angry with me .What should I _____to him
A .say B.speak C.argue D.talk
( )19.I need to get some money to _____the summer camp .
A .pay on B.pay in C.pay with D.pay for
( )20.I really don’t know _________.
A.what should I do B.what to do C.what does D.what doing
( )21.—Do you often hear Jane ______ in her room?—Yes.Now you can hear _____ in her room.
A．sing; singing B．sing; sing C．singing; sing D．singing; singing
( )22.Jim is ______ than Mike.
A．much more careful B．much carefuller C．many more careful D．a little carefuller
( )23—May I ____ your CD player?—Certainly,but you can’t _____ it to others.
A．borrow,keep B．lend,keep C．keep,borrow D．borrow,lend
( )24．—Jimmy is leaving for a holiday.—Really?Where _______ he _______?
A．has; gone B．will; go C．did; go D．does; go
( )25.If he doesn’t want to do the job,does ________ want to?
A.everybody else B.anybody else C.else anybody D.else everybody
( ) 26.He was sleeping late____ someone knocked at the door.
A when B while C so D as
( )27.Today all of us went to the park _ __Peter.He was ill in bed.
A.but B.beside C .except D .besides
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If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（八）：
急求一篇英语演讲稿!题目为happiness!要两到三分钟到就行,只要初一水平.【If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.】
Happiness is the most precious thing in the world,which can be obtained in different ways.
From my point of view,being in a good mood anytime and anywhere is the first thing for those who want to be happy.There is an old saying going like this,"happy is he who is content." I can"t agree with it any more.I still remember a story my mother told me when I was a child.A millionaire tried every means to seek after pleasure but to feel unhappy.It"s not unique,but has its counterpart that poor men to whose name not having a thing always feel happy.Why are they so different?The answer is that the rich is being thinking how he can gain more while the poor is satisfied with what he owns at hand-health,freedom,love and so on.
Furthermore,love makes great difference to happiness.If you have love in your heart,you will have happiness in your life.Love consists of two parts,one is to love others,and the other is to be loved by others.Lei Feng set a good example for all of us.He served the people wholeheartedly until the last minute of his life.He regarded serving the people as the happiest thing.There are numbers of similar inspirational stories to be found.In addition,being loved by others can also lead you to happiness.Courage from your parents when frustrated,care from your lover when ill,help from your friends when in trouble… all of these will make you the happiest person in the world.
The last but not least is to act happily.Putting on a happy face and thinking interesting things are helpful to trigger happy feelings.
Wile happiness is precious,it is easy to get.
Happiness
Happiness is important for everyone.Most people want to be happy,but few know how to find happiness.Money and success alone do not bring last happiness.Happiness depends on ourselves.Ln other words,we make our own happiness.Here are a few ways to help you be happier.
Secret of happiness is to enjoy the simple things in life.Too often,we spend so much time think about the future for example,getting into college or getting a good job that we fail to enjoy the present.
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（九）：
急求一篇600词左右的英语美文.中英文对照.
Every living person has problem
What is the secret ingrdient of tough people that enables them to suceed? Why do they survive the tough times when others are overcome by them? Why do they win when others lose? Why do they soar when others sink?
The answer is very simple. It"s alll in how they perceive their problems. Yes, very living person has problems. A problem-free life is an illusion- a mirage in the desert. Accept that fact.
Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys. No one is up all the time, nor are that down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in time.
you may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your response. You can turn you pain into profanity-or into peotry. The choice is up to you. You may not have shosen your tough time, but you can choose how you react to it. For instant, what is the positive reaction to a terrible finacial setback? In this situation would it be the positive resaction to cop out and run away? Escape through alcohol, drug, or suiside? No! Such negetive reactions only produce greater problems by promising a temporary "solution" to the pressing problem. The positive solution to a problem may require courage to initiate it. When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrollable problem of life, then in fact you do control the problem"s effect on you Your reaction to the problem is the last word! That"s the botom line. What will you let this problem do to you? It can make you tender or tough. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you.
In the final analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because thet"ve chosen to react positive;y to their predicament. Tough times never last , but tough people do. Tough people stick it out. History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan. No problem is permanent. Storms always give way to sun. Winter always thaws into springtime. Your storm will pass. Your winter will thaw. Your problem will be solved
2\学会生活在现实中
Learn to live in the present moment
To a large degree,the measure of our peace of mind is determined by how much we are able to live on the present moment. Irrespective of what happened yesterday or last year, and what may or may not happen tomorrow, the present moment is where you are---always!
我们内心是否平和在很大程度上是由我们是否能生活在现实之中所决定的．不管昨天或去年发生了什么,不管明天可能发生或不发生什么,现实才是你时时刻刻所在之处．
Without question, many of us have mastered the neurotic art of spending much of our lives worrying about variety of things--all at once. We allow past problems and future concerns dominate your present moments, so much so that we end up anxious,frustrated,depressed,and hopeless. On the flip side, we also postpone our gratification, our stated priorities, and our happiness, often convincing that "someday" will be much better than today. Unfortunately, the same mental dynamics that tell us to look toward the future will only repeat themselves so that "someday" never actually arrives. Jhon Lennone once said, "Life is what is happening while we are busy making other plans." When we are busy making "other plans", our children are busy growing up, the people we love are moving away and dying, our bodies are getting out of shape, and our dreams are slipping away. In short, we miss out on life.
毫无疑问,我们很多人掌握了一种神经兮兮的艺术,即把生活中的大部分时间花在为种种事情担心忧虑上－－而且常常是同时忧虑许多事情．我们听凭过去的麻烦和未来的担心控制我们此时此刻的生活,以至我们整日焦虑不安,委靡不振,甚至沮丧绝望．而另一方面我们又推迟我们的满足感,推迟我们应优先考虑的事情,推迟我们的幸福感,常常说服自己”有朝一日”会比今天更好．不幸的是,如此告戒我们朝前看的大脑动力只能重复来重复去,以至”有朝一日”哟贫农公元不会真的来临．约翰．列侬曾经说过：”生活就是当我们忙于制定别的计划时发生的事．”当我们忙于指定种种”别的计划”时,我们的孩子在忙于长大,我们挚爱的人里去了甚至快去世了,我们的体型变样了,而我们的梦想也在消然溜走了．一句话,我们错过了生活．
Many people lives as if life is a dress rehearsal for some later date. It isn"t. In fact, no one have a guarantee that he or she will be here tomorrow. Now is the only time we have, and the only time that we have any control over. When we put our attention on the present moment, we push fear from our minds. Fear is the concern over events that might happen in the future--we won"t have enoughh money,our children will get into trouble,we will get old and die,whatever.
许多人的生活好象是某个未来日子的彩排．并非如此．事实上,没人能保证他或她肯定还活着．现在是我们所拥有的唯一时间,现在也是我们能控制的唯一的时间．当我们将注意力放在此时此刻时,我们就将恐惧置于脑后．恐惧就是我们担忧某些事情会在未来发生－－我们不讳有足够的钱,我们的孩子会惹上麻烦,我们会变老,会死去,诸如此类．
To combat fear, the best stradegy is to learn to bring your attention back to the present. Mark Twain said,"I have been through some terrible things in life, some of which actually happened." I don"t think I can say it any better. Practice keeping your attention on the here and now. Your effort will pay great dividends.
若要克服恐惧心理,最佳策略是学会将你的注意力拉回此时此刻．马克．吐温说过：”我经历过生活中一些可怕的事情,有些的确发生过．”我想我说不出比这更具内涵的话．经常将注意力集中于此情此景,此时此刻,你的努力终会有丰厚的报偿．
3\How High Can You Jump?
Flea trainers have observed a strange habit of fleas while training them. Fleas are trained by putting them in a cardboard box with a top on it. The fleas will jump up and hit the top of the cardboard box over and over and over again.
As you watch them jump and hit the lid, something very interesting becomes obvious. The fleas continue to jump, but they are no longer jumping high enough to hit the top.
When you take off the lid, the fleas continue to jump, but they will not jump out of the box. They won"t jump out because they can"t jump out. Why? The reason is simple. They have conditioned themselves to jump just so high.
Once they have conditioned themselves to jump just so high, that"s all they can do!
Many times, people do the same thing. They restrict themselves and never reach their potential. Just like the fleas, they fail to jump higher, thinking they are doing all they can do.
跳蚤训练人在训练跳蚤时发现跳蚤有一个奇怪的习惯.若把跳蚤放在一个有顶盖的盒子里,他们会不断地跳起来,撞击顶盖.
你观察他们跳起来撞击顶盖,会慢慢发现一个有趣的现象.他们仍会跳起来,但不会再撞到顶盖.
当你把顶盖拿开时,跳蚤还会接着跳,但却不会跳出盒子.为什么呢?原因很简单.它们已经习惯了只跳那么高.
一旦它们习惯只跳这么高之后,它们就只能跳这么高了.
很多时候,人们也是一样.他们自己限制了自己,从来不去发掘自己的潜力.就像跳蚤一样,没能跳得更高,还以为已经到了自己能力的极限.
4\热爱生活 （Love Your Life ）
Henry David Thoreau/享利.大卫.梭罗
However mean your life is,meet it and live it ;do not shun it and call it hard names.It is not so bad as you are.It looks poorest when you are richest.The fault-finder will find faults in paradise.Love your life,poor as it is.You may perhaps have some pleasant,thrilling,glorious hourss,even in a poor-house.The setting sun is reflected from the windows of the alms-house as brightly as from the rich man"s abode;the snow melts before its door as early in the spring.I do not see but a quiet mind may live as contentedly there,and have as cheering thoughts,as in a palace.The town"s poor seem to me often to live the most independent lives of any.May be they are simply great enough to receive without misgiving.Most think that they are above being supported by the town;but it often happens that they are not above supporting themselves by dishonest means.which should be more disreputable.Cultivate poverty like a garden herb,like sage.Do not trouble yourself much to get new things,whether clothes or friends,Turn the old,return to them.Things do not change;we change.Sell your clothes and keep your thoughts.
不论你的生活如何卑贱,你要面对它生活,不要躲避它,更别用恶言咒骂它.它不像你那样坏.你最富有的时候,倒是看似最穷.爱找缺点的人就是到天堂里也能找到缺点.你要爱你的生活,尽管它贫穷.甚至在一个济贫院里,你也还有愉快、高兴、光荣的时候.夕阳反射在济贫院的窗上,像身在富户人家窗上一样光亮；在那门前,积雪同在早春融化.我只看到,一个从容的人,在哪里也像在皇宫中一样,生活得心满意足而富有愉快的思想.城镇中的穷人,我看,倒往往是过着最独立不羁的生活.也许因为他们很伟大,所以受之无愧.大多数人以为他们是超然的,不靠城镇来支援他们；可是事实上他们是往往利用了不正当的手段来对付生活,他们是毫不超脱的,毋宁是不体面的.视贫穷如园中之花而像圣人一样耕植它吧!不要找新的花样,无论是新的朋友或新的衣服,来麻烦你自己.找旧的,回到那里去.万物不变,是我们在变.你的衣服可以卖掉,但要保留你的思想.
5\父爱和母爱
Motherly and Fatherly Love
Motherly love by its very nature is unconditional. Mother loves the newborn infant because it is her child, not because the child has fulfilled any specific condition, or lived up to any specific expectation. Unconditional love corresponds in one of "the deepest longings, not only of the child, but of every human being; on the other hand, to be loved because of one"s merit, because one deserves it, always leaves doubt: maybe I did not please the person whom I want to love me, maybe this or that--there is always a fear that love could disappear. Furthermore, "deserved" love easily leaves a bitter feeling that one is not loved for oneself, that one is loved only because one pleases, that one is, in the last analysis, not loved at all but used. No wonder that we all cling to the longing for motherly love, as children and also as adults. The relationship to father is quite different. Mother is the home we come from, she is nature, soil, the ocean; father does not represent any such natural home. He has little connection with the child in the first years of his life, and his importance for the child in this early period cannot be compared with that of mother. But while father does not represent the natural world, he represents the other pole of human existence; the world of thought, of man-made things, of law and order, of discipline, of travel and adventure. Father is the one who teaches the child, who shows him the road into the world. Fatherly love is conditional love. Its principle is "1 love you because you fulfill my expectations, because you do your duty, because you are like me." In conditional fatherly love we find, as with unconditional motherly love, a negative and a positive aspect. The negative aspect is the very fact that fatherly love has to be deserved, that it can be lost if one does not do what is expected.
The positive side is equally important. Since his love is conditional, I can do something to acquire it, I can work for it; his love is not outside of my control as motherly love is.
母爱和父爱
母爱的天性是无条件的.母亲爱她的新生婴儿,因为那是她的孩子,而不是因为这个小孩符合了什么特别的条件,也不是因为孩子达到了她的某种特别的期望.无条件的爱符合——不只是小孩子,而且是每个人最深切的渴望.另一方面,如果因为自己的优点,因为自己值得爱而被别人爱,我们总会心存疑虑：可能我没有使那个我希望他(她)爱我的人满意吧?可能这个,可能那个——总是害怕那份爱会消失.而且“值得的”爱很容易令人产生一种辛酸的感觉：似乎一个人不是因为自身而被爱,而是因为自己可以令别人高兴,令别人满足才被爱,似乎自己根本不是被爱而是被利用了.无怪乎我们全都依恋、渴望着母爱,不论小孩还是成年人都如此.
孩子同父亲的关系就完全不同了.母亲是我们的发源地,她是自然、是土壤、是海洋；父亲不代表任何这些自然的归宿.在孩子初生的前几年中,父亲和孩子接触很少.在此期间,对于孩子来说,父亲的重要性远远比不上母亲.但是,虽然父亲不代表这自然的世界,他却代表了人类存在的另一极——思想的世界、人造的世界、法律和秩序的世界、纪律的世界、旅行和冒险的世界.教育孩子的人是父亲,向孩子展示通向世界之路的人也是父亲.父爱是有条件的.它的原则是：“因为你达到了我的期望,因为你完成了你的职责,因为你像我,所以我爱你.”在有条件的父爱中,我们(像在无条件的母爱中一样)发现它既有消极的一面,又有积极的一面.消极的一面是父爱的给予只在你值得得到爱的条件下,而且如果你没有做到他所期望的事,你可能会失去这份爱.积极的一面也同样重要.既然他的爱是有条件的,我可以采取一些办法去获取它,我可以为之而努力；他的爱像母爱一样,并没有越出我的控制力
If,your,happiness,depends,on,what,somebody,else,does,,I,guess,you,do,have,a,problem.（十）：
| Just be happy. Sounds too simplistic, doesn’t it? But, in reality, we can have much more happiness if we choose to consider things from a positive point of view. Everyone experiences the ups and downs of life, however, we can make a decision to take advantage of the negative or pratice what the old saying says to do：“When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!” It really boils down to your attitude and you have the ability to work your attitude into any shape you like. Here are some tips: ●Ignore those who tell you life is too difficult to be happy. what do they know? ●When you awaken each morning, be thankful for another day, even if it’s raining. ●Smile at those you meet, even if they don’t return the favor. ● Don’t borrow trouble. Each day has enough of its own. ●Don’t allow trouble to bury you in its gray depth of sorrow. ●Don’t give in to negative thinking. ●Be positive even when others are not. ●Refuse to give up on anything worth having or doing. ●Do something you enjoy each day, even if it’s just a walk in your neighborhood. ● Whistle as you go though the day. ●Work at being happy because it’s worth it. You’re human, like everyone else, and from time to time you need a little pick-me-up in your decision to be happy. When you reach that stage, find someone else who has decided to be happy. Join forces with him and march forward in your decision to be a happy person. Simply speaking, a happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes. Choose today to just be happy----as much as it depends on you! 55．The amount of happiness depends on________. A．the ups and downs you’ve experienced B．what attitude you take towards life C．how simple a life you manage to live D．the kind of environment you stay in 56．The underlined sentence advises us to________. A．work hard for a comfortable life B．drink lemonade when in difficulty C．make the best of what we have D．ignore the negative side of life 57．Which of the following doesn’t help maintain your good state of mind? A．Think in advance about future troubles. B．Greet others with a cheerful smile. C．Stay positive all the way through. D．Try to enjoy every single moment. 58．The best title for the passage might be “________”. A．Don’t lose heart B．Share your happiness C．Live a simple life D．Let’s cheer ourselves up |
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