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to,get,a,sense,of,how,women(共10篇)

to,get,a,sense,of,how,women（一）：

Topic 1（Unit 1 Book4）
Is it important to have a sense ofhumor? How to develop it?
Yes, of course. Humor isvery important in our life. Well, you have to be genuinely happy at heart, and easy topick up the positive side of things. People are not born to be humorous, theylearn to be funny along the ways. But you may get a head start if you lived ina cheerful environment.
Topic 2（Unit1 Book4）
Do you often play computer games in your spare time?What do you think is the most meaningful leisure activity?
Iseldom play computer game in my spare time. I think doing sports is the mostmeaningful leisure activity. Because it is not only healthy to our body, butalso relaxed ourselves. After sports, we may relieve stress. Then we will havemore energy to study and work. And it must be more efficiently!

Topic 3（Unit2 Book4）
What are the functions ofcompliments? How do you feel when receiving compliments from others?
Inmy opinion, everything has two sides, so do the compliments.Compliments may alwaysgive people energy and encouragement. Appropriate compliments will do good topeople. But too much compliments may lead to pride. As far as I am concerned,when I receive compliments from others, I will feel happy and energetic. And Iwill try my best to do things better.
Topic4 (Unit 3 Book4）
In what ways do people think womenand men are different?
Most people think that women are more emotional and more compassionate than men. They are also viewed as better listeners and better able to do many things at once. Most of us believe women have better “people skills”. We all think that men have a more aggressive nature. They are also more willing to take risks than women. Mostpeople believe that men are self-centered.
Topic 5（Unit3 Book4）
What do you think of a man doing awoman’s job and vice versa? For example, male nurses?
Ithink everyone has his role
Topic6 (Unit 4 Book4）
What should schools and parents doto promote creativity in children?
Creativity is the key to brighter future. So schools and parents mustdo something to promote creativity in children. Teachers should combine thebasics with activities where the students must use their imagination. Inaddition, teachers mustn’t regard energetic and inquisitive children as “naughty”.Parents can make children to do and think by themselves.
Topic 7（Unit5 Book4）
Do you think star athletes are goodrole models for young people? What qualities should a great athlete have inorder to be a good role model?
I do think thestar athletes are good role models for young people. Let’s take Yaoming for example.Through his 4-year"s efforts, he has achieved a big success in his career beinga top player in NBA . That"s one reason why I admire him. And another reason isdue to his humble personality and positive attitude towards life. Thus, he setsa good example for us.

to,get,a,sense,of,how,women（二）：

Polymer Physics Zheda passionate speech of Professor Zheng Jiang excerpt:
As a scholar, I am not to do nothing more than taking the. With this forum, I think the acceptance of all walks of life of knowledge is imperceptible, gradual asymptotic process. The following from the perspective of the natural sciences to talk about some of my views, I make a few major issues:
First, China has been engaged in decades of scientific research and research in dozens of industry categories, which in the end there is China"s national industry, or can be referred to as their own industry? Which in the end a number of scientific research in the international arena is one of the best? China is now in the end what they want? I often go abroad, the first of each country, by the time the baptism of the soul, the wish to come back the next day go in the primary and secondary stresses. Why? Sense of urgency is the pressure and shame, especially to Japan and South Korea, the two countries belong to the East after the feelings more.
The following four aspects, it is nearly 5 years most of the blowing. Said first superconductor, which is started from the Americans. I am a professor, a teacher at the Zhejiang University and Zhejiang University of "Seeking Truth" is priceless. Chinese intellectuals now have a weakness, that is, they say that they do not like the defects, but also do not want to own their own shortcomings. I am willing to come on their own short-Jie Jie, in the face of industry, and I should tell the truth.
With today"s technology, many Chinese are "tracking", which is also a professor at China"s hard, because life than suffering, do not have the money, plus a lot of leaders do not have the knowledge itself, in order to Mongolian leaders to enable them to allocate more money, always the some articles, reports, slogans written better. For example, the education sector is now known as "building world-class universities", the Ministry of Education set the cross-century development plan of 10 universities, and has selected 9, 10 has not yet elected. In China, the developing countries, you can build 10 world-class university, and that the number of the United States? The number of Japan? The actual situation now is: 200 University approached the world, China will not have a Progressive! Can be discharged in a number of Asian? I went outside to see the future, is to build a world-class university Zheda as the communist ideal, we always strive to! However, we should not be illusory to pursue such goals, to call such a slogan, we are also a large gap.
Several industries are now a few years ago set the goal of China"s technology industry moving in several directions. Like nanotechnology, it is only the concept of a scale. Materials of various scales have their own use, for example, why should the soil used to make brick, mud brick is much greater than the scale, because there is no strength of small grains. How can we have a variety of the material world only as it is a nanometer? Therefore, anyone who did not pay attention to put forward the slogan, but in fact we are in the trap of the Americans! This is the same as the arms race. Superconducting engaged in the Chinese Academy of Sciences; genes engaged in Shanghai; the country engaged in nanotechnology, even the factory technicians are engaged.
Mr. He Zuoxiu just talking about suspension train, do not think that high-rise buildings in Shanghai and Tokyo, Osaka, as the modernization of China. Repair a house, repair a bridge is very easy, but you have to look at the quality of our people to what kind of stage. Japan to get out of the building are highly educated; Shanghai buildings and we walk out of the more wealthy people are illiterate! How can it be said that the country has been modernized? Hangzhou, Zhejiang will engage in the WTO pretty, but you can go take a look at the West River, West River can occur if the birds, swans, Hangzhou on the modernization, this is not a question of wearing a piece of clothing. We are most in need of what? We do not use these things to token! We should be concerned with several aspects of which our country?
This is some of the proposals I put forward a number of slogans, in the past said that "ignorance fearless", but now they are "only fearless ignorance", and many enterprises in Zhejiang Province Technical Supervision, the Committee requested the people eat a meal, drink a little wine, he"ll sign you, and then professor of stress we go there, for you to build a chapter, and then is "to fill the gaps at home and abroad," "the international advanced level," write it is "the level of the world"s leading research results "," the first time in scientific discovery, "and so on, this is a very serious problem at present! As a university professor, I am deeply worried about that end! This is not our responsibility, the leadership of our ignorance, that they advocate for the mainstream.
I know the days of the Director or manager it is very difficult because you do not write such a statement, it can not get the money, the project will not be approved. The same is true of a professor, to write reports every day, rather than engaging in a good静下心来in the laboratory study, this is very serious! Scientists said that the Nano can do this that we have to engage on the nano; boss said: nano-business opportunities, do not not have a chance on, so wanted to do in Ningbo, Zhejiang wanted, also wanted to do the roof, we Nano来搞all. Scientists know that nano-unstable, which caused material together, but the industry does not know this family. It is said that nano-so well, we all become more nano, but who played high basketball? The basket was lowered. Can the role of nanotechnology in the treatment of cerebral thrombosis, do not take medicine, dug a small hole on the head, so that nano-person look into cleaning up on the list.
These things may not only I am talking. Nanotechnology in recent months speculation in Zhejiang was riddled with so-called "nano-refrigerator to mold," I do not understand: the biology and the concept of hygiene, a nano-sized material will mold how ? Therefore, to the attention of millions, of people deceived ignorance very起人来because he courageous, dare to say anything, it said: "The only fearless ignorance," we understand a little hesitant to speak on, this is misleading! Now, let the scientific community feel very confused: Many had nothing to do with nanotechnology research, nanotechnology R & D does not have units of the Nano project in the creation of many new battlefield. As a business person, the investment is risk investment, by the absolute return is very dangerous. The more high-tech things, the more the market do not expect it to return, this concept is proposed by me today.
The media were doing? Comrades of the press like to write some new things. I know that there is no new thing to write is not brilliant. Relating to the press to mislead the press to hear a piece that is so described in publicity so that full-page full-page newspaper Zhejiang Nano wrote. In particular, I warned you that this is the whole concept of a subject in a very vulgar!
Here, I would like to talk about science and technology. Our entire country, the basis of national industry is very fragile and I was in Japan over the past few years shopping, Japan"s socks, towel, low-grade sweaters, low-grade garments are made in China, that is, whether a sense of pride?
Good is there, but as a scientist, I need to think about: We have been in the high-tech, what? Japan, South Korea, the United States can not be basic are the domestic production, low-cost East and West shifted to third world countries to produce. You did not receive high-tech, do you think he will give you high-tech it? No!
Such as cars, so many of our associates, but Japan"s automotive technology, such as Toyota, are the second generation, third generation before, he would not have given you advanced! Why do we have to Konica, Kodak, Fuji in the Chinese "great diving"? Lucky to cross-crowded, the rest of China is now the only domestic film! Lucky day, such as the collapse of foreign film will be all the prices!
China now imports the film sold more than Japan, the United States are cheaper, which is dumping! This is the Chinese people do not know.
Why not have our universities into the pre-200? Because the FCA provides for the 800 papers to enter the pre-200. Why Zheda hard to engage in scientific research for 10 years did not have money? Papers written by Professor less, an average of one professor did not like myself a year to write a few articles 5,6. Why? Professor of China one month"s wages on average only 1,500 yuan, equivalent to 170 U.S. dollars; how much the United States wages a professor? How much of his article? Professor cheaper in China can be seen! Professor of the high cost of the United States!
Why was it so? Therefore, I am very concerned that this continues, the next 5 years to 10 years, you are some what in the end? This vicious circle, we basically do not have their own industry has been! I do not approve of "shipbuilding than to buy ships, buy a boat as a charter," had a number of years to look at, will be like?
Here to talk about my personal point of view: first, the reality of our country and development is quite simply this: Those who can not rely on, and we can make their own像模像样, such as a second shell stars; those who can be introduced, it can be done both . Why?
Scientific and technical personnel of enterprises to engage in a hard-earned technological innovation, as long as the district leadership of the Planning Commission, Economic Commission of the provincial leadership of the day with the people look to the United States, bought a number of electrical products, sign agreements with them and then to the United States to provide training to 10 days, the introduction of a line as soon as you can play cross-state-owned enterprises, and this is reality! Now many such joint ventures, selling things, but not to consider these deep things. As everyone knows, this is a vicious circle of society!
On telecommunications, I only say this with the telecommunications sector: this point I could afford to pay telephone charges! However, do not you ever thought you from the perspective of their own money to make the consumers, but consumers there are the doctor, you were not sick Telecom it? If you enter the hospital, he sold high-priced drugs to you all right?
I joked: "You Do not poor I am a professor of losing money. I"ll go back and check the list, look at my College, my students how many children you the telecommunications sector to the next semester all fail ! To pass, every minute the money to pay 5,000 yuan. "But I will never do it! If so, this world of chaos. As members of society, must have this kind of thinking: we are interdependent, and we in this country also.
.You see I started to learn English from high school, university, Master of Science, Dr. Science, I spent much energy! You say how to do Chinese people come to the high-tech research results? I learned this a few days I have several of his female students and asked them to do, do not see shadows, all day long test case, test that, to the United States do? In the domestic多着呢thing to do! Test your English all day long, Americans have not even received your报个名money, The same is true of Japanese, Chinese students to Japan to pay fees to study in Japan for the Japanese to work hard to pay挣点钱tuition fees, after reading Dr. inaugural company in Japan, when the labor force, after earning a sum of money to buy a home on home appliances, the whole money to the Japanese. You did not pay attention to this matter, there are economic issues.
This is what is in the end the quality of education. There is such a phenomenon: the University of three grade 42 students, graduated only 15 people, all the other can not graduate. Why is this? Because they play in the university. This is the failure of primary and secondary education! Primary and secondary education is obedient, teachers control cadres, cadres control students, the children have learned the way of life of adults, which is harmful ah! This forced a number of a good thing to do, no man to do good deeds and to foster a combination of criteria, but only learned flattering, like the teacher to discuss that, then adults. The last was broadcast on television, a child won a prize, master poet, asked him the most willing to say anything, he said: "I would like to Grandpa Jiang said: I report to you!" "Grandpa Jiang," Who? Is not taught!
活得很累children in primary and secondary schools, the University of没人管, so we should play, it is necessary to love. We have a Department of boys falling in love with a girl in Sichuan Province, a few days before the class to report to me last month, 20 days back to see his girlfriend, which will have a! Why is this? This is the result of education from an early age! My son in class six female students have a record" the privilege to record which students move men. With 6 meeting records, male students have to write checks, parents must follow the written examination.
When I first wrote it is very difficult subject, how can this happen? Later on got used to it. Friday, asked the son:
"Want to write this week?" Have thick skin anyway, and write it on the writing. The problem is, in fact, he had only a breach of discipline on the six girls at the same time see that this is still 6 times! However, I am not worried for my son, I think: that he was frustrated or depressed, or the growth of his life is good; and I am just worried that the six female students, how can the future through a from combat and frustration! Such education is a very thought-provoking.
I dare say one thing: we have a lot of Zhejiang University professor of education was as an elementary school teacher, like his son, an elementary school teacher in the first sentence of each meeting is: "Dear comrades of the parents: the child is yours, is ours, but the final analysis, or you! "say these words every time, and then said:" You do not understand science, do not understand education. "I was thinking on: education of the children were sent to us you have to, they are very worried that their children Let your mind so small a whole on the trouble.
I think I am most sorry for is my primary, secondary and tertiary students. When I used a small cadre, has been managing people, and now my heart I am sorry that is the most time was over Not to mention parents, you as a result of their lower education, the children always want to fight, I also know that some parents in the weekend morning, afternoon, evening the children have to arrange to participate in a wide range of learning, the child caused the collapse completely, As a result, children are to be offensive. People who play the piano too early, unless he really is a musician, there are 10 eight or nine will be offensive to the half-way, which is reverse psychology. Therefore, you can not be too dry, so dry is the destruction of people, This is what I say today, for the training of some of his own views.
Science and technology in the end what to do? What to do in the end the high-tech? If I were Minister of Science and Technology, the play on the play, asChenjingrui, he is playing.ChenJingRuiIf it is in today"s China, he is definitely going to beg for food, because he will not engage in industry, and his English is not good, he do not speak fluent English speakers are not good, by now "standard" He is illiterate, but also to talk about a professor!
Is like the Japanese Americans, Japanese, and I said: Who you love this nation, you will have to drop atomic bombs. Black is like the Japanese do not like Chinese. Scholarships are now the highest in Japan, Americans, Europeans and Americans; second, Korean, Taiwan; and the third is the Pakistanis, Malaysians; Fourth, Indians, African countries; and the fifth person to turn to China.
I would especially to our female professors, female students, said: one in Japanese before the Japanese do not want to, will not say; Japanese one I hear you speak English, especially to see the English-speaking Chinese girl, all legs weak, this is true! Japanese do not know Longjing tea, oolong tea and only know that because of the rising sun tea or advertising. Done at the beginning of the Japanese tea ads to find the six most beautiful Chinese girls, Japanese ads from this draw a conclusion:
Beautiful Chinese women because of drinking tea. Therefore, the Japanese especially admire tea, Longjing tea do not know.
Japan, Europe and the United States is the advocate, who can speak English, who is the boss. Sen-Chia Chang Lang Japanese Prime Minister will not be English, but in order to express themselves will be in English, the Secretary of arrangement is called a set of procedures, preparing to open inter-governmental cooperation in Okinawa meeting, to see what Clinton"s greetings in English. However, the Japanese speak English very bad, Yoshiro Mori met Clinton, will be "How are you!" That has become "Who are you?", Bill Clinton thought it was Yoshiro Mori with his humor: I obviously was President of the United States, he also do not know? He asked me why so? I told him today to a humor: "I am husband of Hilary." ( "I am Hillary"s husband"), Yoshiro Mori said that regardless of how Clinton, in accordance with the procedures on the busy to answer: "Too me.", "Me too . "Clinton would like to ask you this joke too, and my wife how do you become a wife? In Japan has become a big joke!
More recently, we have to do high-tech parks, investment in the country is concerned, our views are often led by ex-world trend: want to build a world-class country, first-class level. I am very ashamed to condemn what we ourselves: we took a lot of Chinese professor as the country"s money as a child to engage families, the money has been spent on the writing point of the article, Sierra Leone in a drawer, that is not used, to the leadership of the report: I have done. This is our country"s money! To tell the truth, which should be clear that it is engaged in the play, which is helpful for enterprises, which we did not do a good job. Japan, South Korea"s scientific and technological progress is targeted to very strong. There is a phenomenon: all of the entrepreneurs to the Zhejiang University asked me: "Professor Zheng, are there any projects to make money? To us!" In fact, you do not understand, the professor is away from the market entirely, the market simply do not know what is! He was just playing games, players, and would like some new stuff, so do not think what has Professor!
Zhejiang many suits, like suits SHANSHAN, as well as Wahaha. However,【to,get,a,sense,of,how,women】

to,get,a,sense,of,how,women（三）：

British culture through Chinese eyes
Posted By: Richard Spencer at Jun 27, 2007 at 02:59:55 [General]
Posted in: Foreign Correspondents
Tags:View More Binge-drinking, British culture, china, Chinese students, city life, Sociology , Youth culture
Hundreds of thousands of Chinese have studied abroad in the last few years. It must have had some effect on them, and China, but what?
Britain"s drinking culture has blighted its image
I"ve written before that one thing that I think is fascinating and severely understudied is the experiences of such students during their years away. Well, actually, I think it"s not just Chinese students - the huge increase in various exchange programmes around the world has sent millions of young people to different countries in the name of friendship and improved mutual understanding. Has it worked? I have heard some say that the experience appears on many occasions to reinforce previous prejudices.
Well here at last is a serious study of Chinese students in Britain. Since 100,000 Chinese students are currently in America and Britain alone, (around half of those in Britain, currently) - that"s no small thing.
It"s not perfect: the sample size is small, by its own admission, and often the prejudices of the surveyors are all too evident. Take this conclusion, for example:
Another participant described the difficulties of her own marriage and how her experience of living in British society had made her much more committed to human rights for women. Such developments can be seen as positive effects of cultural exchange. Higher education has a crucial role in allowing people to explore their own potential and to re-evaluate the conditions under which they and others live. This is education in its truest sense.
I can"t disagree with the principle but the assertion that "this is education in the truest sense" is quite a, well, assertion.
Anyway, it seems to me that the two main issues it addresses, apart from women"s rights which is indeed a sort of running theme of the document, are firstly the nature of the students" social experiences of Britain, and secondly their academic experiences. I think I"ll stick to the first today and look at the second tomorrow since they are distinct and important.
The headline finding is undoubtedly rather shocking and frightening, though not in truth surprising. The thing Chinese people don"t like about us is that we are a nation of drunken yobs. The report summed up:
The behaviour of British young people was the biggest shock to people"s expectations. While older people were generally seen as polite, the young were widely thought to be drunken and out of control. Two thirds of the sample named this as an issue.
And here are some quotes:
"I went to Leeds it was rough and dirty. Girls danced on tables with no underwear wore short skirts, were vulgar."
"Gentle country not true, too many drunk people, terrible young people everywhere."
"Young people get drunk the behaviour would be frightening."
"I hate the teenage people with little education, gathering around, holding booze, talking rubbish."
"Bloody terrible young people not so well educated, very rough drunk culture."
"Fighting in the street, drunken hooligan."
"Crime of youth, doing nothing, in the street threatening people."
"There is an emptiness in night life there party, party and nothing else at the night the people are boring. When I went to England, I thought there would be something special in culture people would say interesting things speak about plays or stories. I thought it would be a garden of thinking."
On occasion, this turned particularly nasty:
"Most of my female friends said they were afraid to go out at night, when it was dark in winter. In Leeds and Birmingham, the universities gave personal alarms to all the female students."
"Young people are rude to Asian or African looking people."
There were several descriptions of overtly racist behaviour, and though none had personally experienced serious violence, they knew of or had read about such cases.
This contrasted with their prior expectations - extraordinarily, many of
them seemed to have drawn their presumptions about British society from the pages of Jane Austen and 19th century novels - polite, formal gentlemen, top hats, tea on the lawn etc.
It also contrasted with their experiences of older British people, and smaller cities (than say Leeds or Birmingham), where many were pleasantly surprised by the politeness and friendliness they encountered. One Shanghaier couldn"t quite believe it when a car stopped at a pedestrian crossing for him.
Another liked the way everyone said please and thank you all the time. In such places there were constant reminders of a notion of "civic values": one student stopped to ask the way and the people asked took them to the place they wanted to find. (This has happened to me in China too: I think this is a common way of treating foreigners round the world).
It"s pretty depressing that foreigners see us like this, pretty much because there is certainly truth to it. There are some defences: I suspect many Chinese (and people from other less developed countries) would expect British cities to be the hub of "civic virtue" and prosperity, as cities in China are.
To the Chinese, it is the country person (nongmin? peasant? see debates elsewhere) who are all too often portrayed as "uneducated", "vulgar", "rough" and even "drunk". In Britain, of course, we have switched socially perhaps more than anywhere else in the world: cities, apart from London, are for the working classes, young people and immigrants; small towns, suburbs, and villages are for quiet, dull "middle England".
There"s also no shortage of uncouth and drunken behaviour in China (and promiscuous, too, another shocker for Chinese students in Britain). It"s just that"s the preserve of middle-aged, well-heeled men, not young ones, who have less cash.
Nevertheless, I find the drinking culture in Britain hard to stomach sometimes. It"s hard for us to take this seriously or to do so without seeming hypocritical - which of us has not, on some occasion, had too much to drink, wandered into a Chinese takeaway on the way home and made a joke about egg foo yung? Yet my impression, on return visits, is that it is
getting worse as young people undeniably are getting better off. And it has potentially serious consequences.
I have never thought of myself as a harrumphing middle-Englander, a disgusted of Tunbridge Wells. But then I do work for The Daily Telegraph, and as I have had occasion to remark before, the conservative values of a Telegraph reader are probably more in line with those of China and many other "developing" countries, including if not especially "anti-Western" ones, than you might expect.
Here"s my concluding anecdote. I hope you see its relevance.
A few years ago, I was taking a night bus in London back to the East End, where I lived, after some slightly drunken function or another, and I ended up sitting next to a Senegalese asylum seeker. We got chatting. He had come to London from Paris.
There was too much racism in France, even though as a French speaker it ought to have been easier from a language point of view. In fact, he now spoke beautiful English, of the sort that many Africans and Indians and now Hong Kong Chinese do, who have learned it as a second or third language and thus have avoided cliches and junk-speak.
But despite being a qualified professional (engineer from memory) he could only get a job in a fast-food restaurant. As an asylum-seeker, even that was probably illegal. So life in Walthamstow was pretty tough (he lived there; his job was in Lambeth).
When he asked me what I did, I have to confess I was a little nervous. The media in general were pretty hostile to the number of illegal immigrants who claimed asylum at that time, and the Telegraph was among those arguing for a crackdown. But when I said I was a journalist for the DT, he was delighted.
"That"s my favourite paper," he said. "I read it every day." Slightly taken aback, I asked why. We didn"t exactly advertise ourselves as the paper for inner-city ethnic minority illegal immigrants/asylum seekers. Was it the news coverage, for which we"ve always had a good reputation? (I hoped so, being a news person myself).
"Well yes, the news coverage is famously good," he said. "But I like the editorials most. It is the family values, you see. I thoroughly approve of its stance on family values." Of course, when you think about it, it makes complete sense that immigrants from developing countries (and refugees from quasi-communist or dictatorial socialist regimes, to boot, in many cases) should have conservative values. Perhaps Chinese students should be seen in that light.
At one Telegraph leader (opinion page) conference I attended, the paper"s thinkers were considering backing a campaign by Minehead council to stop men wandering around town with no shirts on. Such uncouth behaviour didn"t fit the town"s sedate image. I protested, on grounds that personal freedom was at stake - if you couldn"t take your clothes off in a seaside town, when could you? But I was outgunned.
Every time I hear a decree by Beijing city government trying to stop men rolling their vests up above their beer bellies (a common back-alley practice in summer, for those who aren"t here), all to give the city the best possible "face" for the Olympics, I think back to that conversation. I think I know whose side the Chinese students in the Glasgow University survey would be on.

to,get,a,sense,of,how,women（四）：

　　Loving life is one of the most important changes you can make to have a healthier and happier life. It doesn"t mean that you won"t have hard times, or times that you"re upset, but having your default be love of your life, will make it easier to cope when times get hard. See step 1 to get started loving your life!
　　Part 1 of 3: Loving Life in the Moment
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　　Let go of the outcome. One of the biggest changes to make is to let go of trying to control the outcome of every situation. Realize that the absolutely only thing you can control is your reaction to a situation, you rarely (if ever) can control the situation itself. The need for control is rooted in fear, and if you"re acting from a place of fear, you are absolutely not loving life.[1]
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　　Ask yourself what you"re afraid of if you relinquish the need to control the outcome of a given situation. As an example, if you feel your girlfriend forgetting the wine for a big evening is going to ruin the evening, question that assumption. Will it actually be ruined? It could be that your attitude will actually ruin the evening, rather than the lack of wine.
　　For example: if you"re just embarking on a relationship (or just looking), it"s fine to plan ahead for where you"d like to see the relationship go, as long as you remain open to the ways in which it won"t be anything like how you planned.
　　Another example is if you have a health issue (of any kind). Instead of holding a constant anger about the situation, remember that you can"t control the health issue (although you can do things to help or make it worse), you can only control how you act about the situation.
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　　Be flexible. This doesn"t mean that you can twist your body into a pretzel shape, this means that you are open to different possibilities. It ties in with letting go of the need to control the outcome, because if you aren"t acting in a flexible manner towards life, you"re going to come up against something that will break you.[2]
　　Question your thoughts and words. Look at what you"re thinking and saying (especially if it has to do with why you can"t do something). You"ll start to notice the places where you"re most rigid in your thinking and your actions and you"ll be able to work on softening those areas.
　　Change up your regular routine. They don"t have to be big changes, but doing something a little different each day keeps you on your toes, even if it"s something as simple as taking a different route to work each day, or stopping at a different coffee shop occasionally.
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　　Face your problems. Everyone has problems, big or small. Ignoring or avoiding them only makes them get bigger and bigger until they"ve taken over your life. You don"t have to face them all at once, but dealing with things as they arise, rather than waiting, will help your long-term ability to love life, because problems won"t be building up.
　　Focus on finding a solution to the problem, rather than focusing on the problem itself. For example, if you"re having a problem with your roommate, instead of focusing the problem itself and building it up, focus on what both of you need to do to make the living situation work.
　　Ask yourself whether a problem is actually a problem. Sometimes you build something up into a problem without realizing why. For example: if making telephone calls makes you anxious, ask yourself why that is. Forcing yourself to come up with a reason for something that seems nonsensical can actually help you release the anxiety around what you feel is a problem.
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　　Take a time-out. Sometimes the thing you need the most to get re-energized and life-loving is to take a break from everything. This means taking a little time to pamper yourself, or simply to give yourself some much needed rest.
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　　Take a warm bath and put on an audiobook or music to listen to so your mind doesn"t focus on all the things that might be worrying you.
　　Let yourself do nothing but day-dream for awhile. Maybe you take the bus to work or school everyday. Use this time to zone-out and catch up on imagination time, something that"s important for your overall health and productivity.
　　Do something fun. This can be anything, big or small (anywhere from reading a book you love to going on vacation), as long as it is something that allows you to take a break from everything.
　　Part 2 of 3: Using Long-Term Physical Solutions
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　　Laugh. People are always saying that laughter is the best medicine and strangely enough, it is something that can greatly help your health and your mood. Laughing helps increase your blood flow, heightens your immune response, help relaxation and sleep. It can even help lower blood sugar levels.[3]
　　Put on your favorite comedy, or take a youtube break, if you"re feeling stressed. The laughter will help you lower your stress levels.
　　Get together with your friends and reminisce about your favorite, ridiculous moments. Laughing with others helps you feel supported and cultivates a more positive attitude.
　　2
　　Maintain your health. Your health has such a huge influence on your emotions and your attitudes about things. It can be really hard to love life when you"ve got the flu or even a really bad cold. Doing everything you can to maintain your health will help your attitude towards life.
　　Exercise releases chemicals that boost your mood, help to fight depression, and help your sleep patterns. Even getting only a small amount of exercise each day is beneficial. So take a walk, go for a run, do some yoga, or even just put on some music and dance![4]
　　Drink lots of water. Water is necessary for your health. Getting dehydrated can make your less able to function and feel bad. Try to drink at least 8 ounces of water each day (try to avoid drinks that are high in sugar or caffeine, since these can dehydrate you).
　　Eat a balanced diet. Avoid sugar and processed foods as much as possible (the occasional indulgence is fine!). Stick to eating lots of fruits and vegetables and protein, or good carbohydrates (like brown rice, quinoa, whole grains, oats).
　　Get enough sleep. Getting enough sleep helps boost your immune system, helps to deal with depression and sickness. The optimum amount of sleep is 8-9 hours each night and if you can"t do that, try to take a nap sometime during the day.
　　3
　　Step outside your comfort zone. To love life you need to be willing to try out new things and to challenge yourself to do things that may make you nervous. Part of loving life and being happy is to not be ruled by fear, which will suffocate you in unhappiness.
　　Start small, especially if you have a lot of anxiety about doing new things. Take up knitting or cooking in the privacy of your own home. You learn a lot from YouTube tutorials on the subject and you"ll be learning a useful skill.
　　The more you try new things and get outside your comfort zone, the easier it will be to do so. It takes practice to deal with your fear of trying new things.
　　Don"t punish yourself if you end up not being able to do something (like skydiving, or or traveling somewhere far away by yourself). There will always be things that you can"t or won"t be able to do. That"s okay! Try something else instead.
　　4
　　Sing. Singing, especially in a group, releases chemicals (endorphins and oxytocin) that make us feel good and happy and help to lower stress. Group singing lets you feel bonded to other people and part of a community, which is an added support system that can help you feel safe and which alleviates depression and loneliness. [5]
　　Look around your city or town to see if there"s a community singing group that you can join. If not, think about starting one. You can even do it just with your friends and you can sing any songs you want!
　　Singing alone is also beneficial, since it helps regulate your breathing in the same way that yoga does, and is a good way to relax.
　　You might be thinking, "but I can"t sing." You don"t have to be the next Katy Perry to enjoy singing. If you don"t want to sing in front of other people because you think you"re not good enough, then shut your bedroom door and sing quietly to yourself.
　　5
　　Help others. This means using your time, your energy, and/or your money to help other people. When you practice philanthropy, you"ll find yourself gaining a sense of perspective and of purpose. Philanthropy can also help reduce your stress and anxiety, while giving you a chance to connect with other people.[6]
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　　Find a local soup kitchen, or shelter to volunteer at. Make a point to volunteer at least once a month (or even once a week). There are lots of different kinds of shelters (battered women"s shelters, family shelters, even animal shelters).
　　Doing something as simple as helping a family member or friend can be an act of philanthropy. You could take someone to a doctor"s appointment, or help someone move into a new apartment. You could make your family a meal (if that"s something you don"t usually do), or offer to wash your parents" car.

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to,get,a,sense,of,how,women（六）：

all man are born equal As it is written in every civil country"s constitution,everyone is equal,no matter whether they"re healthy or unhealthy,black or white,men or women.First,I want to say that disabled people are equal to normal people.We should not look down on them.It"s not their fault for being disabled; they were created this way or some accidents tool their abilities away.Despite all the inconveniences they face,the} can also achieve success if they are recognized and respected as equal and given equal chances.Helen Keller,a famous American writer,was a person that I"ve always looked up to.She was born blind,deaf and mute,thus she could not see or hear or learn to speak.She was treated like an animal in a complete darkness and loneliness when she was young,until one day,Miss Ann Sullivan,a teacher from Boston,came to her,loved her with all her heart,taught her and helped her to succeed.And Helen accomplished so many things that even normal people couldn"t with the help of Ann.So why don"t we all lend a hand to those who are in need of our help,instead of looking down upon them?Remember that we"re equal.Second,black people are equal to white people.There was a sad time in history when blacks were used as animal labor,sepa-rated from their parents or children,traded and shipped in filthy ships to places unknown but dreadful to them.But that was so unfair and wrong!They"re really not "black meat "as they were called.They are human beings with feelings and emotions and in-telligence like every one of us and every white person!Look,who is Secretary General of the UN today?Doesn"t Mr.Kofi Annan work just as well as or even better than white people?The great black movement leader,Martin Luther King Jr.once said,"I have a dream,that one day,on the red hills of Georgia,the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to join hands and sit at the table of brotherhood." It is also my dream that people will no longer be concerned by their petty dif-ferences and stand on equal ground!Last,I want to say that women are equal to men.If there is anyone who would argue that men are superior to women,please let him answer why there has never been a male scientist in human history to do a better job than Madam Curie who won the Nobel Prize twice?We have to admit that men and women are different and good at different things.But that"s it,and that has nothing to do with who is better or who is worse.We should all see this truth.Today we still need to make more efforts to realize this.Only in this way will we make this world a much much better family for all of us!------------------------------ ------------------------------ ------------------------------ -------- why it"s better to be a woman Several months ago,my friend Chip wrote an essay entitled,Why It"s Better to Be a Man .While it included a few convincing arguments (men don"t have to carry purses; men have less to shave),I was disappointed he could only come up with 10 reasons.After all the time I"ve spent listening to men rave about their units 鈥 not to mention enduring the phallic homages played out in skyscrapers,modern art and heavy metal 鈥 you would think there would be more than 10 lousy reasons.I can think of 10 reasons not to long for what the boys got:1.Women Get to Wait in Line at Public Restrooms This might seem like an argument for the opposite camp,but think of the times you"ve been at a baseball game or monster truck pull having a perfectly miserable time with a male companion.By excusing yourself to stand on line at the biffy,you were reunited with many of your own gender,and as you inched forward,flush after flush,you began to talk 鈥 really talk 鈥 with these women (shared discomfort creates deep trust and mutual understanding).By the time you made it to the stall you were hugging your companions goodbye and exchanging phone numbers 鈥 friends for life!Men,on the other hand,are in and out of the head in no time.Do you think it"s a coincidence that men have difficulty creating close and lasting friendships with other men?2.Women Get a Door This is related to reason one.There"s something unseemly about having to pull out your goods for public display,and ...horrors,I can"t even go on!3.Women Get to Sit Down There"s been some controversy on this topic,thanks to Camille Paglia,who writes in her book Sexual Personae:"Male urination is a kind of accomplishment,an arch of transcendence.A woman merely waters the ground she stands on." I can"t speak for Camille,but only in extreme cases of toilet deprivation have I ever "watered the ground I stood on." I prefer to sit.4.Men Make More Money Men,propelled by their willies and some prehistoric hunt-and-gather mindset,spend their nasty lives clawing,sniping and scratching their way to the top of the pay scale,all the while eating fatty foods,losing their hair and clogging their arteries,until one day 鈥 kablooey!鈥 they keel over.When they"re gone,it"s the women (who live longer) who spend what"s left.All those old ladies you see at the travel agency collecting stacks of cruise brochures are having fun,fun,fun!5.Women Never Worry About Whose is Bigger No matter what we tell men about how much size doesn"t matter,it does.(Well,it doesn"t really,but we talk about it with our girlfriends,anyway.) Knowing this,women can feel fortunate that we don"t attach much of our identity to something we can only see in a hand-held mirror.6.Women Are Better Looking Because women don"t have penises,and therefore,loads of violence-inducing testosterone coursing through our veins,we"re prettier,softer,have less stubbly black hair,smell better,and are basically more lovely to behold.When men can"t understand why we spend so much time in the bathroom,it"s because they don"t know the joy of appreciating one"s lovely mug in the mirror.7.Women Have Breasts Given the preoccupation that straight men have with these,it puzzles me that Freud never came up with a Breast Envy theory.Breasts are fun,no matter what shape,size or agenda,be it nutritional or recreational.They are soft,reassuring,and in their passive splendor,a far more potent sexual asset than any dangling penis.8.Women Have Periods As a woman,I am allowed to eat copious amounts of food,yell at my loved ones,cry uncontrollably for no reason,and when it"s all over,say "I can"t help it.I"m having my period." When men behave this irrationally,which they are known to do,they have no excuse.9.Women Bear Children Men and their equipment make an important contribution to the reproductive cycle,but their role is much like that of the center on a football team:He hikes the ball,she carries it for a touchdown.Being pregnant might be more of a burden if it weren"t for the fact that men suffer so much more seeing what their seed has done to the women they love.Labor pains are brief compared to the torment you can inflict on a man just by smiling weakly and saying,"That"s OK,honey.I"m sure you would have been glad to carry Junior,if only you could." 10.Women Have a Hidden Agenda You can"t play hard to get when your intentions are standing at attention.You know what I"m talking about 鈥 the pleading eyes,the heaving chest,the sudden alertness in his nether regions 鈥 it"s so obvious,for God"s sake.For women,it is a blessing to be able to withhold some cards from the sexual table,thus creating a sense of mystery and promise.Think of it as hiding one"s light under a bushel.
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to,get,a,sense,of,how,women（七）：

Eat Western food in a large sense in the mood to eat:the marble fireplace,Yi Yi flash of light crystal,silver candelabra,wine colorful,together with the people of the charming and elegant manner,which in itself is a moving painting.To your taste in the Western manner when more skilled,more charges are familiar with these efforts ritual meal,or a very worthwhile.
When they took the body to correct,not to elbow on the table,not enough to raise one"s foot,and the distance between the table in order to facilitate the better use of tableware.Meal on the stage has been set up at the dinner not to play.Fold the napkin on the lap gently.
* The use of knife and fork to eat from the outside to the inside of access to knife and fork to hold the left hand fork,knife-wielding right hand; all things left-handed when holding down the fork food,the right hand of its Trauma Center sawing into small pieces and then Fork into the mouth.The use of a knife,the blade can not be outside.To lay down their knives and forks in the dining should be put into the "eight" fonts were on the edge of the plate.Towards the blade itself,that should continue to eat.After each dish,knife and fork on the feet close together and after.If talks with a knife and fork can be no lay down.Do not have a knife,can also hold the right hand fork,but the need to make gestures,it should lay down their knife and fork,knife and fork must not hand waving in the air shaking,not single-handedly with a knife or fork,and another napkin in hand Cazui,can not be a wine glass in hand,fork in hand and the other taking food.We have to remember that at any time,will not be the end of the knife and fork on the plate,on the other side of the table.
* Each into the mouth of the food should not be too much to chew on when not to speak,but can not take the initiative to talk with people.
Meal
Admission,call the owner,that is to start eating.
Take food,not sung too much.After eating food,if not,can be taken.If the greeter at the dish,to be added,to be sent when the receptionist again.If I can not eat or not eat the food,or serve as the master greeter Jia Cai,do not refuse,on the desirability of a small amount of disk,and said "Thank you,enough." Taste of the dishes are not,do not show An embarrassed expression.
To eat refined.Chewing shut up,do not drink soup,not to eat sounds.Such as soup,hot dishes,cold wait before eating,not to blow his mouth.Inside the mouth of the fish bone,the bones do not directly outside the spit,Yanzui napkins,hand (can be used chopsticks to eat Chinese food) out,or lightly fork in the spit,vegetables on tray.
The leftovers of food,utensils used toothpicks should be placed on disk,not to put their table.
Mouth with food,not to speak.Tiya,napkin or hand over the mouth
Talk
Both for the owner,or Peike guests,and the table should talk to people,especially around next to him.Not only with a few acquaintances or two of the same words.If the neighbor did not know,introduce myself first.
Toast
As the guest of honor at the banquet to participate in foreign,should be used to understand each other"s toast,that is why people toast,when the toast,and so on,in order to make the necessary preparations.Clink,and the owner of the guest of honor first touch,many people may indicate a toast at the same time,not necessarily clink.Toast careful not to cross when the clink.And the master chief guest at the speech,toast,the meal should be suspended,to stop talking and pay attention to listen,and do not like to take this opportunity to smoke.Stood when the national anthem is played.The master and guest of honor,then finished with VIP guests clink staff,often to Teachers sprinkle the other table,should an emergency occur,rose to toast.Clink,to pay tribute to each other by sight.
Dinner toast each other,said the friendly,lively atmosphere,but bear in mind that excessive drinking.Drinks too easily slip of the tongue,and even loss,it is necessary to control himself in less than one-third of those who have.
Undress
In social occasions,no matter how hot the weather can not solve the buttons off his clothes in public.Small informal dinner,and invited guests,such as the masters of undress,gentlemen can take off his jacket in the back.
Tea
(Or coffee) tea,coffee,plus get milk,sugar,cup self to join with small mixing teaspoon,teaspoon back into the still small dishes,usually milk,sugar are in full bloom with separate utensils.Drink at the right hand is holding the Cup,the left hand side small dishes.
Fruit
Chili,Apple,do not bite with a whole should be cut into four with a fruit knife,6,and then peeled with a knife,nuclear,and then eat with their hands,peeling knife-edge when North Korea,cut inside from the outside .First banana peel,cut into small pieces to eat with a knife.With a knife and cut into pieces to eat oranges,orange,lychee,longan and so on can eat Bole Pi.The rest,such as watermelon,pineapple,etc.,usually go into skin yuan,can be used when eating a fruit knife and cut into small pieces with fork food.
Shui Yu
In the banquet,the chicken,lobster,fruit,in some cases sent a small Shui Yu (Tongpen,crystal bowls or Boli Gang),a floating rose petal water or lemon slices for the use of hand-washing (some people have mistaken for beverages,As a result become a joke).Wash hands when they take turns damp fingers gently Shuanxi,and then use a small napkin or towel dry.
Memorial items
Some of the master for each person attending or have a small souvenir of flowers.At the end of the banquet,call the owner to bring guests.In such,it can be said that it commended the 12 small gifts,but do not have to solemnly said.In some cases,foreign visitors,the dinner menu is often taken as a souvenir,and sometimes I please with those who signed the menu as a souvenir.In addition to the special master to indicate things as souvenirs,a variety of entertainment products,including candy,fruit,cigarettes and so on,are not taken away.
Thanks
Sometimes in the private sector attended the banquet activities,often my business card or memo said.
Will buffet,cocktail buffet vegetables take,cocktail reception,greeter serve,not to get a gun,I have to be sent to the front of the airport project.Did not get around the first time,not to rush to get their second.Do not dish around the table next to the check End Tuikai that,in order to let other people get.
The use of tableware
Chinese food is the major bowls,chopsticks,is the Western knives,forks,plates.Dinner is usually a foreigner to eat Chinese food,Chinese food is also for the West to eat more,before we go,knife and fork set.The knife and fork is the use of his right hand with a knife,hold the left hand fork,cut into small pieces of food,and then sent a cross inside the mouth.Europeans do not use changing hands,from cutting food were sent to hold the left hand fork.Americans,after cutting,put down the knife,fork right hand holding the entrance to send food.When dinner knife and fork in accordance with the order from outside access inside.After each course,emissions will be set within feet close together and knife and fork to eat that.If finished,then put into a character or a cross placed,knife-edge to inside.Chicken,lobster,indicated by the master,can be torn by hand to eat,or can be cut meat knife and fork,cut into small pieces to eat.Cut with bone or hard shell of meat,meat fork must fork in prison,knife-edge close to cross under the cut,so as not to slide open.Vegetable,be careful not to hit too much force plate and sound.Is not easy to cross the food,or food is not easy on the fork,gently push it available Dao fork.In addition to the soup,do not have to spoon feeding.With deep soup plate or small bowl full bloom,when to drink with a spoon scoop from the inside out into the mouth,is about to do drink,can be set to hold out a little.Eat with the smell of food,such as fish,shrimp,game,etc.equipped with a lemon,juice will hand out food in the drip,to smell out.
Are involved in an accident case
Banquet in progress,due to carelessness,the occurrence of unusual circumstances,such as too much force,knife and fork so that the impact plate,audible,or drop utensils on the floor,or knock over drinks and so on,should not have to worry calm.Tableware out of touch sound,a small sitting next to (or host) say "I am sorry." Tableware can be dropped to send a greeter to pay.Spilling drinks spilled next to him who should apologize to help dry; as the other women,as long as the clean handkerchief or napkin and handed to her own dry.

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Chinese people always appreciate the purposes and principles of Olympic ideal, support the efforts of Olympic Games to promote world peace. The Chinese Government and people are doing our the utmost/best to prepare for the 2008 Olympic Games in Beijing, and shooting at the pageant with advocating Olympic ideal, sparkpluging world peace and enhancing the relationships among the world. Olympic spirit are gonna spread again in orient cultural ancient China.
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The 29th Olympic Games in 2008 8-24 August in the Chinese capital Beijing. The Olympic Games has set up three major concepts: Green Olympics, Hi-tech Olympics and People"s Olympics. Held 28 major items of sub-38 game, resulting in 302 gold (of which China 51). In 2008, there are more than 20,000 athletes, coaches and officials to participate in the Beijing Olympic Games. In addition to the majority of games held in Beijing, the sailing competitions in Qingdao, equestrian competitions in Hong Kong, some football preliminaries in Tianjin, Shanghai, Shenyang and Qinhuangdao held. July 8, 2005, in Singapore the International Olympic Committee held its 117th plenary meeting, decided to co-organized by the Hong Kong Olympic equestrian events in 2008, is the second time in Olympic history of the Olympic Committee from different regions of the contractor.
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2008 Beijing Olympic Games
2008 Beijing Olympic Games will be full of wisdom; green.
2008 in Beijing, earthshaking changes have taken place: a Zhuangzhuang skyscrapers拔地而起; one of the wide road leading to all directions. World-class stadium, hotel, waiting for foreign friends visit. Piaozhuo the colored flags everywhere; has a wide variety of flowers of the open men, women and children singing and dancing…… ah, Beijing, the sea became joy.
Blue; black; red; yellow; Green color composition of the Olympic rings, their representatives from the five continents the Olympic athletes are universally applicable together at Olympic reunions under the banner of. Wuhuan, the flame, let us to understand the profound meaning of the Olympic Games, with our hearts touched by the fire and the passion to love the Olympics tomorrow watering flowers.
Listening, People"s Republic of China national anthem in the stadium to the sound, the People"s Republic of China national flag in the stadium float up, the Chinese people"s faces reveal a bright smile.
Looking back at the history of the last Olympic Games, Beijing"s skies an jubilation, it is because many Chinese people eagerly and shouting, Athens, a blue sky, towering That is because the morale of the infection. Chinese players with tremendous confidence, courage defeated his opponent, conquer the stadium, "Volunteer Marche," and again in the hearts of Chinese people around the world played. All the Chinese people proud, proud of all the Chinese people.
Today, when the Olympic flame Ranran up, the people of the world"s attention once again a result of attention in Athens. We can not help but recall the history of 100 years ago King Zhuang. 100 years after the world"s people have once again gathered in this ancient culture and a sense of the land. This is friendship, peace, is fair and just competition in the sport of origin.
Now I am most excited and looking forward to the forthcoming 2008 in the capital of China - Beijing, convened the 29th session of the Games. I have long been the standard and the flag of the Olympic Games logo posted on the Qiangtou. I firmly believe that the people of the world it would be a gathering of the most memorable, a green and beautiful, culture and tradition of fairness and friendliness of the event, once this term to bring the Olympic Games even more far-reaching event. I would like to achieve this aim and to study hard and learn history, English and cultural practices, the future for the Beijing Olympics, let the world see a warm, civilized, beautiful, advanced Chinese.
We have become increasingly isolated in recent Olympic Games, we have to do it » First of all, we should pay attention to environmental protection, can not spit, throw garbage. Olympics opening day, foreigners came to Beijing to see the Olympics, we will McGREGOR the unlike Chinese people think of them as to the neglect health, spitting. In this way, we Chinese people will be the world"s praise. If foreigners to ask for directions we should also eager for others to speak, asked if the road were heard clearly, we should re-Jiang Yibian, not impatient, but also stresses courtesy in order to demonstrate our rituals of the Chinese people Bang. My home in Xinjiang, is a remote rural areas, although far away from Beijing, but our children are looking forward to the Olympics. Now the Government"s policy getting better and better, before the kind of cotton farmers
Most have paid if the smuggling of cotton, but also Faqian. Now, in order to get rich farmers, who own the kind of cotton, all under their own, not handed over.
We usually think about coexistence between the students, although from time to time because of some trivial altercation occurred, Bieniu more trouble, but look at these on behalf of the athletes in their respective countries in the international arena of struggle and contest, what is the reason we do not treasure this Years of friendship? Classmate »
Ah, how the future of the Olympic Games is longing for ah! We should now start to study hard in all homework, and lay a solid foundation of knowledge, to host the 2008 Olympic Games on our strength!

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You love us when we"re heroes,home on leave,(1)
Or wounded in a mentionable place.(2)
You worship decorations" you believe (3)
That chivalry redeems the war"s disgrace.(4)
You make us shells.You listen with delight,(5)
By takes of dirt and danger fondly thrilled.(6)
You crown our distant ardours while we fight,(7)
And mourn our laurelled memories when we"re killed.(8)
You can"t believe that British troops "retire" (9)
When hell"s last horror breaks them,and they run,(10)
Trampling the terrible corpses-blind with blood.(11)
O German mother dreaming by the fire,(12)
While you are knitting socks to send your son (13)
His face is trodden deeper in the mud.(14)
--Siegfried Sassoon
Originally published in 1918
Analysis:
This poem is a very sarcastic poem.It marks the beginning of anti-women literature.Men resented the fact that they had to fight in the war,while the women could stay home and pretend that everything was the same as it always had been.Men and women could not relate to one another as they had before.
Line 1:Women only love soldiers that are decorated heroes.When the men are home the women fawn over their heroic deeds,but when the men are away in battle women could not care less.
Line 2:"wounded in a mentionable place" can have a couple of meanings.It is common to think that a woman would only want to be with a man that is not disabled in any way.Losing an arm or leg would not be a desirable injury,because they would not be considered real men any more.Soldiers are glorified as heroes and heroes are not crippled.A wound in an unmentionable place could be the mind.Many soldiers experienced psychological issues as a result of everything that they seen in battle.Sassoon had a really hard time when his friend died in battle; he was even sent to a mental hospital under the guise of having shell shock.Many soldiers had a hard time rationalizing all the killing and dying of men who probably did not really deserve to die since they were just fighting to uphold the honor of their countries.
Line 3-4:At home,life went on like there was no war going on.When soldiers would come home on the weekends they could not understand how life seemed so unaffected.They were out in the trenches everyday killing and dying.When they came home they were expected to act like the chivalrous gentlemen that they were before the war,but they had a hard time being that man because they had seen too much evil.Societal doctrine did not exist out in the trenches.
Line 5:"you make us shells"-in WWI,many women were recruited to munitions factories; this is a job that had only been held by men previously.Working in the factories gave women a new sense of independence and after the war they wanted to continue working.They provided the equipment of death.
Line 6:the women loved to listen to their stories of battle; to them they were like scary made-up stories meant for entertainment,but for the soldiers it was their reality.The women did not seem to understand the reality of the war.
Line 8:"you mourn our laurelled"-in ancient Rome and Greece,a victorious general was crowned with a laurel wreath.
Line 9-11:These lines are pointing out the naivety of women.Women wanted their men out there fighting and being heroic without considering what this actually did to them.They did not understand what it was like to be on the front line and they would act like it was not a big deal to kill.Women are trying to be nationalists,but they have no idea what nationalism really means.
Line 11-14:While women are concerning themselves with the frivolities of life,men are out there dying in the mud.Their bodies no longer discernable; they become just another dead body on a large field of dead bodies,while women get to sit at home knitting.
Sassoon,Siegfried."Glory of Women." Norton Anthology of English Literature:Twentieth Century and After.Vol.F.Ed.Stephen Greenblatt.New York:Norton,2006.1962.
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to,get,a,sense,of,how,women（十）：

第Ⅰ卷 听力部分（20分）
一）.选出你所听到的句子中含有的单词（听一遍）（5分）
( )1.A. and B. end C. hand D. head
( )2. A. pass B. passed C. past D. park
( )3. A. thanks B. sense C. things D. sings
( )4. A. police B. please C. people D. P.E.
( )5. A. help B. happy C. have D. happen
二）选择所听句子的正确答案.（听两遍）.（5分）
( ) 6. A. Language B. Music C. Tennis
( ) 7. A. In 1970 B. In sydney C. Not here
( ) 8. A. Yesterday B. Often C. Half an hour
( ) 9. A. For five minutes B. Five minutes ago C. Because it’s hot
( ) 10. A. A violinist B. No, he isn’t C. He is an athlete
三）听短文,完成表格.（听二遍）.（5分）
题号 项目 答案
11 Name
12 Be born
13 Country
14 Job
15 Favourite colour
四）听短文,选择正确答案.（听二遍）.（5分）
( ) 16. A. A writer B. A scientist C. A singer
( ) 17. A. 50 B. 60 C. More than 50
( ) 18. A. singing B. writing C. drawing
( ) 19. A. Yes, it is. B. No, it isn’t C. It’s yellow
( ) 20. A In Tokyo B. In Sydney C. In New Tork
第II卷
一、词汇（10分）
A．根据句意及首字母完成单词,使句子通顺合理（5分）
1. These two coats are very nice. They don’t know which one to c ______.
2. “P ________” is another way of saying “wallet” .
3. He is p_________ milk for you.
4. The old singer is singing at the w __________.
5. Take this p _________, and you can go to America.
B．根据句意,用所给单词的适当形式填空（5分）
1. The girl who catches the flowers will be next to get ________ (marry).
2. Li Lei writes ________ (care) than Jim.
3. This way, please. The ________ (lady) room is here.
4. Look! The cat is washing _________. (it)
5. Stop talking and keep ________.(quiet)
二、选择填空（15分）
( )1. This maths problem is too difficult. ______ students in our class can work it out.
A. A little B. Little C. Few D. A few
( )2. ________ kind girl she is!
A. What B. How C. How a D. What a
( )3. You’d better ________ again.
A. not to be late B. not be late
C. to not be late D. be not late
( )4. Her mother is ill ________ hospital.
A. in B. at C. at the D. in the
( )5. – Can you ________ it in English?
-- Yes, but I can’t ______ the story in English.
A. speak, say B. say, tell C. speak, tell D. talk, say
( )6. Would you please ______ to my house this evening?
A. to come B. coming C. come D. came
( )7. When did they __________ ?
A. reach B. get to C. arrive in D. arrive
( )8. I _____ my things in that restaurant.
A. leave B. forget C. left D. forgot
( )9. “It’s me.” Tom answered _______ a tired voice.
A. in B. on C. with D. at
( )10. Look! Someone together with two boys _______ .
A. is swimming B. are swimming C. swim D. swam
( )11. Nobody knew more about him than that, ________ ?
A. did it B. didn’t they C. did they D. didn’t it.
( )12. He runs fastest in his class. ______runs faster than he in his class.
A. Everyone B. Nobody C. someone D. Anyone
( )13. I have ______ friends. They often come to see me.
A. a quite few B. a few quite C. quite a few D. quite few
( )14. A woman saw it _____ when she was walking______.
A. happening, past B. happen, passed
C. happen, past D. to happen, passed
( )15. – Would you like to have some tea or coffee?
-- ________. Thank you . I’ve just had enough tea.
A. Either B. Neither C. Some D. Both
三、句型转换（20分）
A．按要求改写句子,每空一词（10分）
1. The man lay on the road.(改为一般疑问句)
________ the man ______ on the road?
2. There is something new in today’s newspaper.(改为否定句)
There _______ _______ new in today’s newspaper.
3. The woman often feels tired because she is fat.(划线提问)
_________ ________ the woman ______ _____ tired?
4. The man on watch is shouting loudly.(划线提问)
________ _________ is shouting loudly?
B．同义句转换,每空一词（10分）
1.It took him two days to finish the work.
He _______ two days _______ the work.
2. My father told me not to swim in the river alone.
My father _______ me from ________ in the river alone.
3. His father is sick. His mother is sick, too.
His _______ are ________ sick.
4. This problem was so difficult that they couldn’t solve them.
This problem was ________ difficult ______ ______ ______ solve.
四、动词填空（10分）
1. I hear him _____(sing) in the next room now.
2. The man _________ (draw) a picture at ten last night.
3. The news made me __________ (feel) very sad.
4. Must I clean the dining room at once?
No, you _____ (must).
5. We ______ (hold) a sports meeting next week.
6. Tell me how _______(get) there.
7. You are tired. Why not stop ________ (have) a rest?
8. I’d like you ______(come)to supper.
9. There is going to _________ (be) a football match this afternoon.
10. Who ________?(know) Please hands up!
五、完型填空（10分）
Many people like to 1 TV. It’s one of 2 important activities (重要的活动)of the day. TV brings the outside world closer to 3 homes. Some people say the world is smaller than before because 4 TV.
What’s going on (发生) in other countries? How do people live in far away places? Is there a good sports game somewhere? What 5 the life in the deepest part of the sea?
If you want 6 these and other kinds 7 questions, just turn 8 the TV and watch it. Of course people can 9 learn through reading or listening to the radio. But TV can help them learn 10 and more easily, why? Because they can hear and watch too. TV can give us new ideas. It’s a wonderful (美妙的) thing.
( )1. A. see B. watch C. look at D. look
( )2. A. more B. better C. the most D. most
( )3. A. people’s B. peoples’ C. person’s D. persons
( )4. A. as B. at C. in D. of
( )5. A. is B. are C. about D. be
( )6. A. know B. knowing C. knows D. to know
( )7. A. of B. on C. about D. in
( )8. A. around B. back C. on D. off
( )9. A. too B. also C. either D. neither
( )10. A. best B. most C. the better D. better
六、阅读理解（25分）
(A)
Two tramps（流浪汉）were sleeping under a tree by a busy main road when a large expensive car drove up and a man stepped out, walking up to the two tramps and waking them up.
"Just look at what you are doing there!"the man began to say. "If you get up and look for a job, then you can live a better life. You might even become rich like me. By the time I was 40, I had become a leader (领导) of the company and now I am 60 and I am rich and can retire (退休)."
One of the tramps looked at him over and answered, “And if we had done all those things, we could also retire and sit under a tree and watch rich men driving by in expensive cars."
1. The two tramps were waken up by ______.
A. a tree B. a man C. a busy road D. a car
2. How did the man feel about the tramps?
A. He took pity (可怜；同情) on them. B. He was proud of them.
C. He felt happy for them. D. He showed his love to them.
3. The man wanted the tramps to ______.
A. make a better life B. become a leader
C. have dinner with him D. retire at 60
4. The two tramps ______.
A. liked to go begging (乞讨) B. were very sad for their life
C. enjoyed their life D. admired (羡慕) the rich man
5. We can infer (推断) that ______.
A. the two tramps would try their best to find a job and live a better life
B. the man would give the two tramps a lot of money to spend
C. the man would do as the tramps did
D. the two tramps would do as they used to
(B)
Jimmy is a very kind young man. He works in a big supermarket. His workmates like him very much.
Last month Jimmy caught a bad cold, he stayed in bed for about two weeks. But after he got well. Something happened—he couldn’t stop winking(眨眼) . When he stayed at home, he was all right as usual. But if he went out, he couldn’t stop his eyes from winking.
Jimmy went to work the next morning. On the way he met a policeman and winked at him. The policeman felt surprised but said nothing. Then he met an old man and winked at him. The old man thought he must be mad. But still he didn’t say a word.
Real trouble started when he met women. First he met a young lady. He winked at her. The woman’s face turned red, and ran away as fast as she could. And then he met an old woman who carried a walking stick. Jimmy winked at her, she looked closely at him. Jimmy winked again. Without saying a word, she hit Jimmy on the head with her walking-stick.
“Take that!” she cried out “This is a lesson(教训) for you.”
Poor Jimmy! How could he explain it ? He ran away quickly.
From then on, he always wears a pair of dark glasses when he goes out.
( )1. What had happened to Jimmy after he caught a bad cold?________.
A. He had to stay in hospital for a long time.
B. He couldn’t stop closing his eyes.
C. His legs hurt a lot.
D. There was something wrong with his eyes.
( )2. When he stayed at home, ___________.
A. He couldn’t control (控制) his eyes of winking.
B. He was all right. C. He winked at others.
D. He wore a pair of dark glasses.
( )3. Who felt surprised when Jimmy winked? __________.
A. The policeman. B. The old man.
C. The young lady. D. The old woman.
( )4. Jimmy winked at the young lady because ________ .
A. he wanted to talk with her. B. he loved her very much.
C. she winked at him first.
D. he couldn’t stop his eyes from winking.
( )5. Why did the old woman hit Jimmy?_________.
A. Because she was the young lady’s grandma.
B. Because she hated Jimmy.
C. Because Jimmy winked at her.
D. Because Jimmy laughed at her.
第Ⅰ卷 听力部分原文：
一) 1. The winners receive the cup at the end of the match.
2. She could not dance well in the past.
3. He has a good sense of humour.
4. I told the police about the robbers.
5.They don’t know what will happen to them.
二）.6. What was her favourite sport at school?
7. Where was he born?
8. How long did he hiccup?
9. When did he start sneezing?
10. Is Tony a pianist or a biolinist?
三). I’m Toby Wood. I was a footballer. I was born in 1949. I lived in Australia and played football for thirty two years. I lived near the sea. I liked dogs. My favourite color was black. I never went out of Australia.
四).
Susan King was a singer. She was born in 1945 in the USA. She lived in New York for most of her life. She always loved singing. She had one child, a daughter. She’s a singer, too. Her favourite color was yellow and her favourite fruit was pear. She had about two pears a day for most of her life. She loved dogs and usually had two.
Questions:
16. What did Susan do? (C)
17. How old is she? (C)
18. What did she like doing? (A)
19. Is white her favourite? (B)
20. Where did she live for most of her life? (C)
答案:
第Ⅰ卷 听力部分
一) BCBAD
二）CBCBA三). 11. Toby Wood 12. 1949 13. Australia 14. a footballer 15. black
四).CCABC
第II卷
一、A.1. choose 2.purse 3.pouring 4.wedding 5.passport
B.1. married 2. more carefully 3. ladies’ 4. itself 5. quiet
二、CDBAB CDCAA CBCCB
三、A. 1. Did lie 2. isn’t anything
3. Why does often feel
4. Which man
B. 1. spent finishing/on 2. stopped swimming
3. parents both 4. too for them to
四、1. singing 2. was drawing
3. feel 4. needn’t.
5. will hold 6. to get
7. to have 8. to come
9. be 10. knows
五、BCADA DACBD
六、(A) BAACD
(B) DBADC

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